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For anyone facing a cancer diagnosis, treatment, scans and the waiting in between. Talk with people in Sri Lanka who know what it is like, find help near you, and join the worldwide circle too. Free, always.
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Run by people who have been through chronic pain and adjusting to a disability themselves.
Weekdays and Saturday mornings
We help people with parenting a seriously ill child and chronic pain, in person in Negombo and online. Sessions are relaxed and you set the pace.
Weekdays and Saturday mornings
We help people with infertility and ivf and difficult or high-risk pregnancy, in person in Galle and online. Sessions are relaxed and you set the pace.
Evenings and weekends
Practical help for people dealing with ms, parkinson's, als and neurological conditions and long covid, plus a weekly drop-in.
Mon to Fri, 9 to 5
โTo whoever needs this: In 2022 I was exactly where you are. The worst part was the oncologist who talks to the screen not to me. This week I went back to my evening class. The bad days get further apart.โ
โWhen I was first diagnosed, I didn't know what to say to my kids. I still don't have all the answers. What helped was small steps: a walk, a phone call, a nap. Don't rush to tell everyone. Take your time. The wig can wait. The tears come when they come. Just keep showing up for the next thing, even if it's just a cup of tea.โ
โIf you've just found this place, eighteen months ago I was exactly where you are. Back then it was work asking when I will be back. These days I mostly feel like me. You're not on your own.โ
โHi, you. I was where you are nearly four years ago. Telling the kids without the word cancer at first. That was my life. This week I went back to my evening class. Things come back, slower than you'd like but they do. One day at a time.โ