Bahir Home Help
We help people with losing a pet and loss of a friend, in person in Bahir Dar and online. Sessions are relaxed and you set the pace.
Evenings and weekends
For parents who lost a son or daughter. There is no word for it; there are people who understand. Talk with people in Ethiopia who know what it is like, find help near you, and join the worldwide circle too. Free, always.
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We help people with losing a pet and loss of a friend, in person in Bahir Dar and online. Sessions are relaxed and you set the pace.
Evenings and weekends
We help people with losing a pet and loss of a spouse or partner, in person in Mekelle and online. Sessions are relaxed and you set the pace.
Evenings and weekends
We help people with loss of a parent and loss of a child, in person in Addis Ababa and online. Sessions are relaxed and you set the pace.
Weekdays and Saturday mornings
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Free emotional support from trained listeners, online and anonymous, in many languages.
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Grief recovery support groups meeting weekly.
โI do not know what to say to you. I am three years ahead and I still do not have the right words. The first weeks you will be in a fog and people will say stupid things and you will forget half of it. That is normal. Do not let anyone tell you how to grieve. Some days you will laugh and then feel terrible. Laugh anyway. Keep something of your child out where you can see it. For me it is a hoodie on a chair. And if you can, find one person who has been there. Not to fix you. Just to sit with you in it.โ
โHi, you. I was where you are eighteen months ago. Back then it was her name, I want people to say her name. I've started painting again. You're not on your own.โ
โSorry if this is a lot. I'm not going to tell you everything happens for a reason. It doesn't. But you can get through it. I did, and I'm not especially strong. Keep one thing of theirs close. For me it's his jumper.โ
โPlease be gentle with yourself. I wasn't, and it made everything harder, routine saved me and same time up, same walk, same tea. And talk to someone, even if it's just in here.โ