Utrecht Home Help
Practical help for people dealing with living with cancer and facing a terminal illness, plus a weekly drop-in.
Mon to Fri, 9 to 5
For people near the end of life and those keeping vigil. Talk with people in Netherlands who know what it is like, find help near you, and join the worldwide circle too. Free, always.
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Practical help for people dealing with living with cancer and facing a terminal illness, plus a weekly drop-in.
Mon to Fri, 9 to 5
Practical help for people dealing with caring for someone with dementia and rare disease, plus a weekly drop-in.
Evenings and weekends
Practical help for people dealing with chronic illness and infertility and ivf, plus a weekly drop-in.
Evenings and weekends
โI'm only a few months into this, but here's what I've learned so far. The paperwork can wait an hour. The fear doesn't go away, but it gets quieter if you let people help. Write things down, even if it's just a sentence. And find one small thing that makes you smile, like a game of cards or a bird at the feeder. It won't fix anything, but it makes the day easier to carry.โ
โTo whoever needs this: This time last year I was exactly where you are. Back then it was bucket list or not. Last weekend I went to a friend's birthday and stayed till the end. It comes back so slowly you don't notice until one day you do. Hang on.โ
โIf you've just found this place, I was in the same place a year and a half ago. The worst part: told I have months, not years. Today I went for a walk and didn't cry once.โ
โWhen I first heard 'months, not years', I thought my world ended. It didn't. You'll have good days and bad days. The scanxiety is real, but it passes. Let people help you. The hospice team, your family, friends. Talk about your fears. I wish I'd done it sooner. You're not by yourself in this, even when it feels like it.โ