Steady Hands Care, Gdaลsk
Run by people who have been through caregiver burnout and empty nest themselves.
Weekdays and Saturday mornings
For parents whose children have left home. Talk with people in Poland who know what it is like, find help near you, and join the worldwide circle too. Free, always.
Next gathering in the Poland circle: Weekly check-in ยท
Run by people who have been through caregiver burnout and empty nest themselves.
Weekdays and Saturday mornings
Practical help for people dealing with parenting a struggling teen and family estrangement, plus a weekly drop-in.
Tue to Sat, 10 to 6
โThe quiet is the hardest part at first. I am only a few months ahead of you. For me, the first weeks I just sat and listened to the clock. Then I started going to the charity shop and that gave me a reason to get up. I also walk. Every day. It does not fix it but it helps. Your child will come home and then leave again, and that is okay. You will find a new rhythm. It is slow, but it comes.โ
โHello from the other side of it. I was right where you are about three years ago. Back then it was my husband and I with nothing to say. I wake up most days without that dread. It comes back slowly, like feeling in your fingers after the cold. Sending love.โ
โIt is hard when they leave. The silence is loud. I know. I felt it too. You will cry. You will feel lost. That is normal. But you will find new things. I started painting again. I do nails for the neighbours. It is not the same. But it is something. Find your something. And call your children. They miss you too. They are just busy living. You will get through this. I promise.โ
โIf you're scared right now, I get it. I've been there. For me it was not that long ago, about a year. Mine was setting the table for four. Today I made breakfast, went to work and laughed at something. It doesn't stay this heavy. xโ