Clear Path Counselling, Ikeja
Practical help for people dealing with loss of a parent and anticipatory grief, plus a weekly drop-in.
Tue to Sat, 10 to 6
For anyone grieving a mother or father, at any age. Talk with people in Nigeria who know what it is like, find help near you, and join the worldwide circle too. Free, always.
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Practical help for people dealing with loss of a parent and anticipatory grief, plus a weekly drop-in.
Tue to Sat, 10 to 6
A small team supporting loss of a spouse or partner and loss of a friend. Free first conversation, then low-cost sessions.
Tue to Sat, 10 to 6
A small team supporting losing a pet and loss of a spouse or partner. Free first conversation, then low-cost sessions.
Weekdays and Saturday mornings
Run by people who have been through loss of a spouse or partner and anticipatory grief themselves.
Evenings and weekends
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We help people with loss of a spouse or partner and loss of a friend, in person in Abuja and online. Sessions are relaxed and you set the pace.
Tue to Sat, 10 to 6
Run by people who have been through loss of a child and loss of a brother or sister themselves.
Mon to Fri, 9 to 5
Run by people who have been through losing a pet and loss of a friend themselves.
Evenings and weekends
Free emotional support from trained listeners, online and anonymous, in many languages.
24/7
โAbout three years ago, that was me. Mother's Day ads. That was my life. This morning I sang in the car. It's slow, but it does come back.โ
โFor anyone just starting this: it is going to hurt like hell for a while. You might feel guilty about the things you didn't say or do. That is normal. But the guilt is not the whole story. The love is. Keep talking to them if you want. Keep their number in your phone. And find one person who will listen without trying to fix it. That helps more than the advice.โ
โWhen my dad died, I thought I would never feel normal again. And I was right, but also wrong. You don't feel normal, you feel different. The first months are the hardest. Accept help. My friend Mary brought me food, and I didn't want to eat it, but I did. Talk about your parent. Say their name. It helps. Don't worry if you cry in the supermarket. It happens. And if you have siblings, try to remember you are all hurting, even if you show it differently. Be patient with each other.โ
โIf you're at the start of this, I won't pretend it's easy and the first few months were the worst of my life. But I'm writing this from the other side, and some days now I forget to be sad. I had to stop googling, it made everything worse so go slowly.โ