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Loss of a parent support in Nigeria

For anyone grieving a mother or father, at any age. Talk with people in Nigeria who know what it is like, find help near you, and join the worldwide circle too. Free, always.

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Help for loss of a parent in Nigeria

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Clear Path Counselling, Ikeja

Practical help for people dealing with loss of a parent and anticipatory grief, plus a weekly drop-in.

Tue to Sat, 10 to 6

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Northside Debt Advice, Benin

A small team supporting loss of a spouse or partner and loss of a friend. Free first conversation, then low-cost sessions.

Tue to Sat, 10 to 6

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Jos Home Help

A small team supporting losing a pet and loss of a spouse or partner. Free first conversation, then low-cost sessions.

Weekdays and Saturday mornings

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Northside Debt Advice, Onitsha

Run by people who have been through loss of a spouse or partner and anticipatory grief themselves.

Evenings and weekends

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HelpBLESS

Ask the world for money, goods, time or skills you need right now. Posting is free.

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Abuja Grief Counselling, Abuja

We help people with loss of a spouse or partner and loss of a friend, in person in Abuja and online. Sessions are relaxed and you set the pace.

Tue to Sat, 10 to 6

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Hands Together Jos

Run by people who have been through loss of a child and loss of a brother or sister themselves.

Mon to Fri, 9 to 5

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Kano Community Food Hub

Run by people who have been through losing a pet and loss of a friend themselves.

Evenings and weekends

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7 Cups

Free emotional support from trained listeners, online and anonymous, in many languages.

24/7

From people who came through it

  • โ€œAbout three years ago, that was me. Mother's Day ads. That was my life. This morning I sang in the car. It's slow, but it does come back.โ€

    Verรณnica from Oaxaca ยท been through loss of a parent
  • โ€œFor anyone just starting this: it is going to hurt like hell for a while. You might feel guilty about the things you didn't say or do. That is normal. But the guilt is not the whole story. The love is. Keep talking to them if you want. Keep their number in your phone. And find one person who will listen without trying to fix it. That helps more than the advice.โ€

    Busy Clover ยท been through loss of a parent
  • โ€œWhen my dad died, I thought I would never feel normal again. And I was right, but also wrong. You don't feel normal, you feel different. The first months are the hardest. Accept help. My friend Mary brought me food, and I didn't want to eat it, but I did. Talk about your parent. Say their name. It helps. Don't worry if you cry in the supermarket. It happens. And if you have siblings, try to remember you are all hurting, even if you show it differently. Be patient with each other.โ€

    Uni student K ยท been through loss of a parent
  • โ€œIf you're at the start of this, I won't pretend it's easy and the first few months were the worst of my life. But I'm writing this from the other side, and some days now I forget to be sad. I had to stop googling, it made everything worse so go slowly.โ€

    mateo.bass45 ยท been through loss of a parent

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