Tumelo Counselling, Centurion
Run by people who have been through growing older alone and veterans and military life themselves.
Evenings and weekends
For the identity shift after a working life ends. Talk with people in South Africa who know what it is like, find help near you, and join the worldwide circle too. Free, always.
Next gathering in the South Africa circle: Questions for the guides ยท
Run by people who have been through growing older alone and veterans and military life themselves.
Evenings and weekends
โA note for the next person. I was in the same place a year and a half ago. My wife has her own routine. That was my life. Last month I had people round for dinner. Things come back, slower than you'd like but they do. You're not on your own.โ
โI don't know what you're facing, but I know the quiet. I know the table for four. I know the meetup you leave early. It's okay to not know what's next. Just try one thing. One drink. One Tuesday at the charity shop. One call. It's not a solution. But it's something.โ
โIf you're scared right now, I get it. I've been there. For me it was about three years ago. I remember volunteering at the charity shop like it was yesterday. I went on vacation in the summer and actually relaxed. It changes. It really does. Keep going, even slowly.โ
โPlease be gentle with yourself and I wasn't, and it made everything harder and telling one person the full truth helped me more than anything, and talk to someone, even if it's just in here.โ