Northside Debt Advice, Frankfurt
We help people with co-parenting after separation and caring for an aging parent, in person in Frankfurt and online. Sessions are relaxed and you set the pace.
Mon to Fri, 9 to 5
For adult children caring for parents. Talk with people in Germany who know what it is like, find help near you, and join the worldwide circle too. Free, always.
Next gathering in the Germany circle: Weekly check-in ยท
We help people with co-parenting after separation and caring for an aging parent, in person in Frankfurt and online. Sessions are relaxed and you set the pace.
Mon to Fri, 9 to 5
Practical help for people dealing with caring for an aging parent and new parenthood, plus a weekly drop-in.
Weekdays and Saturday mornings
We help people with single parenting and a loved one's addiction, in person in Dortmund and online. Sessions are relaxed and you set the pace.
Tue to Sat, 10 to 6
A small team supporting parenting a child with a disability and caregiver burnout. Free first conversation, then low-cost sessions.
Evenings and weekends
Run by people who have been through single parenting and new parenthood themselves.
Evenings and weekends
We help people with parenting a child with a disability and a loved one's addiction, in person in Kiel and online. Sessions are relaxed and you set the pace.
Evenings and weekends
Run by people who have been through a loved one's addiction and co-parenting after separation themselves.
Tue to Sat, 10 to 6
โI was right where you are two years ago. Dad fell twice this month. That was my life. Yesterday I booked a holiday. It doesn't stay this heavy.โ
โHi, you. I was in the same place eighteen months ago. I remember taking him to every appointment like it was yesterday. Today I went for a walk and didn't cry once. Things come back, slower than you'd like but they do. Praying for you.โ
โTo someone just starting out caring for an aging parent: I know it feels like your life isn't your own anymore. I've been there. The appointments, the forms, the constant worry. It's okay to be tired. It's okay to ask for help, even if some people let you down. Celebrate the small wins, like a good day or a smile. Look after yourself too, even if it's just ten minutes with a cup of tea. You're doing a good job, even when it doesn't feel like it. And other people are going through the same thing, even if it feels like they're not.โ
โI know you're in the thick of it and it feels like you're the only one holding everything up. I've been there, and I still am some days. What I've learned is that you can't do it all, and that's not a failure. Tell someone, even if it's just a friend or a colleague. Ask for the care assessment and push for what your parent needs. And find a way to get some sleep, even if it means letting something else slide. You're not on your own, even when it feels like it. Take it from me, a guy who's still figuring it out.โ