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Caring for an aging parent support in South Africa

For adult children caring for parents. Talk with people in South Africa who know what it is like, find help near you, and join the worldwide circle too. Free, always.

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Help for caring for an aging parent in South Africa

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Calm Corner Weighted Blankets, Cape

Practical help for people dealing with empty nest and caring for an aging parent, plus a weekly drop-in.

Evenings and weekends

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Open Door Psychotherapy, George

A small team supporting caring for an aging parent and new parenthood. Free first conversation, then low-cost sessions.

Tue to Sat, 10 to 6

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Bongani & Partners Family Law, Cape

Practical help for people dealing with single parenting and a loved one's addiction, plus a weekly drop-in.

Weekdays and Saturday mornings

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Calm Corner Weighted Blankets, Pretoria

Run by people who have been through adoption and foster care and single parenting themselves.

Weekdays and Saturday mornings

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Northside Debt Advice, East

Run by people who have been through parenting a struggling teen and a loved one's addiction themselves.

Mon to Fri, 9 to 5

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Walk and Talk Bloemfontein

Run by people who have been through family estrangement and parenting a child with a disability themselves.

Mon to Fri, 9 to 5

From people who came through it

  • โ€œI know you're in the thick of it and it feels like you're the only one holding everything up. I've been there, and I still am some days. What I've learned is that you can't do it all, and that's not a failure. Tell someone, even if it's just a friend or a colleague. Ask for the care assessment and push for what your parent needs. And find a way to get some sleep, even if it means letting something else slide. You're not on your own, even when it feels like it. Take it from me, a guy who's still figuring it out.โ€

    Evening Sage ยท been through caring for an aging parent
  • โ€œTo whoever needs this: I was in the same place in 2022. It was driving two hours every weekend and I couldn't see past it. This year I did a 5k, slowly. Things come back, slower than you'd like but they do. You're not on your own.โ€

    lamar_still89 ยท been through caring for an aging parent
  • โ€œHi, you. I was in the same place eighteen months ago. I remember taking him to every appointment like it was yesterday. Today I went for a walk and didn't cry once. Things come back, slower than you'd like but they do. Praying for you.โ€

    bikegreen02 ยท been through caring for an aging parent
  • โ€œI was right where you are two years ago. Dad fell twice this month. That was my life. Yesterday I booked a holiday. It doesn't stay this heavy.โ€

    Toriie M ยท been through caring for an aging parent

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