Tumelo Counselling, Centurion
Run by people who have been through growing older alone and veterans and military life themselves.
Evenings and weekends
For young adults struggling to find work, direction or independence. Talk with people in South Africa who know what it is like, find help near you, and join the worldwide circle too. Free, always.
Next gathering in the South Africa circle: Weekly check-in ยท
Run by people who have been through growing older alone and veterans and military life themselves.
Evenings and weekends
โI think If you're at the start of this, I won't pretend it's easy. The first few months were the worst of my life. But I'm writing this from the other side, and some days now I forget to be sad. I said yes to every invite for a month, even when I didn't want to. Glad I did. Go slowly.โ
โFor anyone new to this: I was right where you are two years ago. Graduated two years ago and nothing. That was my life. I picked up the guitar again. Be gentle with yourself.โ
โWhen I was in the thick of it, I thought everyone else had it figured out and I was the only one stuck. They don't. They're just better at pretending. Start with one small thing: a shower, a walk, one application. Not because it fixes everything, but because it stops the gap from growing. And ask for help with the money stuff early. The debt people are not scary, they're just people with a spreadsheet. You're not a failure for needing a while. You're just early in the story.โ
โIf you're at the start of this, I won't pretend it's easy so the first few months were the worst of my life so but I'm writing this from the other side, and some days now I forget to be sad, I volunteered two mornings a week and it gave me a reason to get dressed. Go slowly.โ