Northside Debt Advice, Hamburg
Run by people who have been through loss of a parent and losing a pet themselves.
Tue to Sat, 10 to 6
For the grief of losing an animal who was family. Talk with people in Germany who know what it is like, find help near you, and join the worldwide circle too. Free, always.
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Run by people who have been through loss of a parent and losing a pet themselves.
Tue to Sat, 10 to 6
Run by people who have been through losing a pet and losing someone to suicide themselves.
Mon to Fri, 9 to 5
Ask the world for money, goods, time or skills you need right now. Posting is free.
Practical help for people dealing with miscarriage and pregnancy loss and loss of a brother or sister, plus a weekly drop-in.
Mon to Fri, 9 to 5
A small team supporting loss of a spouse or partner and loss of a brother or sister. Free first conversation, then low-cost sessions.
Tue to Sat, 10 to 6
A small team supporting loss of a friend and loss of a child. Free first conversation, then low-cost sessions.
Tue to Sat, 10 to 6
Free emotional support from trained listeners, online and anonymous, in many languages.
24/7
Grief recovery support groups meeting weekly.
โI don't have advice. I just know the first week is strange and quiet and people say the wrong thing. For me it helped to leave her lead where it was for a while. Then one day I took it down and put it in a drawer. That was all I could do that day. If you're still stepping around the basket, that's alright. You don't have to move it yet. I still miss her. That hasn't changed but it's softer now.โ
โFor whoever is where I was: About three years ago, that was me. I remember the empty basket like it was yesterday. Now I sleep most nights. It changes. It really does.โ
โI know it feels like too much right now, and people might say the wrong things like it was just a cat. They don't know how much space that animal took up in your life. For me, the empty basket was the worst part, and the walks we did without him. What helped was letting myself cry whenever it came, not on a schedule. And finding one person who got it, even online. You are not weird for how much this hurts. It's real, and it will slowly get softer, not smaller. Just keep going, and if you can, keep the routine if it feels okay.โ
โPlease be gentle with yourself and I wasn't, and it made everything harder and I talk to them out loud sometimes and it helps more than it should. And talk to someone, even if it's just in here.โ