Easy Ride Patient Transport, Montego
Practical help for people dealing with loss of a spouse or partner and anticipatory grief, plus a weekly drop-in.
Mon to Fri, 9 to 5
For grieving someone who is still here. Talk with people in Jamaica who know what it is like, find help near you, and join the worldwide circle too. Free, always.
Next gathering in the Jamaica circle: Weekly check-in ยท
Practical help for people dealing with loss of a spouse or partner and anticipatory grief, plus a weekly drop-in.
Mon to Fri, 9 to 5
Practical help for people dealing with losing a pet and loss of a brother or sister, plus a weekly drop-in.
Weekdays and Saturday mornings
Free emotional support from trained listeners, online and anonymous, in many languages.
24/7
Grief recovery support groups meeting weekly.
โWhen my dad went into palliative care, I thought I had to be strong. I didn't. The waiting is the worst part. You don't have to fill every silence. Just be there. If you need to cry, cry in the car. If you need to laugh at something stupid on TV, laugh. It's not betrayal. Your person is still here. That's what matters. Don't plan too far ahead. Just get through today, then tomorrow. That sounds like something off a fridge magnet but it's the only thing that works. And find someone to talk to, even if it's just online. You're not the only one going through this.โ
โA note for the next person. I was in the same place this time last year. Dad is in palliative care. That was every day. I'm volunteering here now. It comes back so slowly you don't notice until one day you do. One day at a time.โ
โIf you're scared right now, I get it. In 2023, that was me. I remember every visit could be the last like it was yesterday. I picked up the guitar again. You've got this, even if it doesn't feel like it.โ
โThe first time you forget she was ever different, that's the worst. I won't lie. It doesn't get easier. But you learn to live in the gaps. The crossword still helps. Coffee. The train. Small things. Don't expect anyone to understand. They won't. But you'll find your people. The ones who nod without saying anything. Hold onto them. And hold onto the good days. They come. Even now.โ