Bong & Partners Family Law
Run by people who have been through loss of a brother or sister and miscarriage and pregnancy loss themselves.
Mon to Fri, 9 to 5
For grieving someone who is still here. Talk with people in Philippines who know what it is like, find help near you, and join the worldwide circle too. Free, always.
Next gathering in the Philippines circle: Weekly check-in ยท
Run by people who have been through loss of a brother or sister and miscarriage and pregnancy loss themselves.
Mon to Fri, 9 to 5
Run by people who have been through losing a pet and losing someone to suicide themselves.
Weekdays and Saturday mornings
A small team supporting loss of a spouse or partner and miscarriage and pregnancy loss. Free first conversation, then low-cost sessions.
Weekdays and Saturday mornings
Run by people who have been through losing someone to suicide and loss of a parent themselves.
Evenings and weekends
Free emotional support from trained listeners, online and anonymous, in many languages.
24/7
Grief recovery support groups meeting weekly.
โIf you're just starting this, I want to say it's a strange kind of loss. You're grieving someone who is still here. That's allowed. Some days you'll be fine and then a song or a smell will hit you and you'll be back in the car crying. It's not linear. And if you have a sibling who doesn't help, try not to let it eat you up. You can't make them care. Just focus on the time you have. You won't regret being there.โ
โI remember when Dad first got sick, I felt so alone. If you are starting this, know that the guilt you feel is normal. It does not make you a bad person. Find one person who gets it, even if it is someone online. And take photos of the good moments, even if they are rare. You will need them later. I am not going to say it is easy, but you can do it. I am here if you want to talk.โ
โReading this late at night? I've been there. I was right where you are two years ago. For me, dad is in palliative care. I picked up the guitar again. You've got this, even if it doesn't feel like it.โ
โTo whoever needs this: I was in the same place nearly four years ago. I remember when guilt for wishing it was over, like it was yesterday. Last month I had people round for dinner. The bad days get further apart. One day at a time.โ