Clear Path Counselling, Yishun
A small team supporting loss of a spouse or partner and loss of a child. Free first conversation, then low-cost sessions.
Weekdays and Saturday mornings
For grieving someone who is still here. Talk with people in Singapore who know what it is like, find help near you, and join the worldwide circle too. Free, always.
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A small team supporting loss of a spouse or partner and loss of a child. Free first conversation, then low-cost sessions.
Weekdays and Saturday mornings
A small team supporting loss of a parent and loss of a friend. Free first conversation, then low-cost sessions.
Mon to Fri, 9 to 5
We help people with loss of a parent and loss of a spouse or partner, in person in Clementi and online. Sessions are relaxed and you set the pace.
Evenings and weekends
Free emotional support from trained listeners, online and anonymous, in many languages.
24/7
Grief recovery support groups meeting weekly.
โIf you're just starting this, I want to say it's a strange kind of loss. You're grieving someone who is still here. That's allowed. Some days you'll be fine and then a song or a smell will hit you and you'll be back in the car crying. It's not linear. And if you have a sibling who doesn't help, try not to let it eat you up. You can't make them care. Just focus on the time you have. You won't regret being there.โ
โI remember when Dad first got sick, I felt so alone. If you are starting this, know that the guilt you feel is normal. It does not make you a bad person. Find one person who gets it, even if it is someone online. And take photos of the good moments, even if they are rare. You will need them later. I am not going to say it is easy, but you can do it. I am here if you want to talk.โ
โIf you're just starting this, the one thing I'd say is: don't wait for the perfect moment to say what you need to say. My dad was still cracking jokes about the football two days before he went. I nearly didn't tell him I loved him because I thought there'd be another visit. There wasn't. And don't feel bad about planning the funeral early. It doesn't mean you've given up. It just means you're trying to make things easier for everyone later. Also, take the unpaid leave if you can. Work will still be there.โ
โThe first time you forget she was ever different, that's the worst. I won't lie. It doesn't get easier. But you learn to live in the gaps. The crossword still helps. Coffee. The train. Small things. Don't expect anyone to understand. They won't. But you'll find your people. The ones who nod without saying anything. Hold onto them. And hold onto the good days. They come. Even now.โ