Northside Debt Advice, Invercargill
Run by people who have been through caring for an aging parent and parenting a struggling teen themselves.
Tue to Sat, 10 to 6
For families and partners of people with addiction. Talk with people in New Zealand who know what it is like, find help near you, and join the worldwide circle too. Free, always.
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Run by people who have been through caring for an aging parent and parenting a struggling teen themselves.
Tue to Sat, 10 to 6
Support for families and friends of people who drink.
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โFor anyone new to this: In 2023, that was me. Al-Anon on Wednesdays. That was my life. I laugh properly again. It doesn't stay this heavy. xโ
โI don't have answers, but I can tell you that you're not crazy for feeling everything at once. The line between helping and enabling is blurry, and you'll cross it sometimes. That doesn't make you a bad person. Find one person who gets it. For me, it was a mate from work who'd been through something similar. And keep something for yourself, even if it's just a run. You'll get through, but not in a straight line.โ
โReading this late at night? I've been there. I was right where you are in 2023. For me it was rehab twice already. I can talk about it now without falling apart. It's slow, but it does come back. Be gentle with yourself.โ
โI've been there. For me it was a few years back. Al-Anon on Wednesdays, every single day. I went on holiday in the summer and actually relaxed. It changes. It really does. Keep going, even slowly.โ