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Breakups and heartbreak support in Indonesia
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Help for breakups and heartbreak in Indonesia
From people who came through it
“If you are at the start of this, one thing. You do not have to answer anyone today. Sit with the lamp off, put the phone face down, that is allowed. The first thing that came back for me was small, a cake for a neighbour, a walk to the corner, saying good morning to a guard. Not big. When someone calls and the phone feels like a brick, let it ring, then maybe message them one word. That word is enough for now. It gets less heavy. Not all at once, but it does.”
hill.lamp57 · been through breakups and heartbreak“Hello from the other side of it. Not that long ago, about a year, that was me. For me it was the playlist I can not listen to. I went on holiday in the summer and actually relaxed. It comes back slowly, like feeling in your fingers after the cold. Sending love.”
Joy G · been through breakups and heartbreak“Please be gentle with yourself, I wasn't, and it made everything harder. Routine saved me so same time up, same walk, same tea, and talk to someone, even if it's just in here.”
Christian S · been through breakups and heartbreak“when it first happens you'll want to lie on the floor and stay there. that's okay. the dishes will pile up. you'll check if he's online. you'll replay every conversation. it's not pathetic. it's just how it goes. i'm two months in and i still do it. but i also went to the corner shop today and the uncle asked about him and i said we broke up and my voice only shook a little. so. that's something. take the small wins. and let your friends drag you into dumb games at night. it helps more than you'd think”
swati_july46 · been through breakups and heartbreak