Northside Debt Advice, Geneva
Run by people who have been through divorce and separation and breakups and heartbreak themselves.
Weekdays and Saturday mornings
For the shock of betrayal and deciding what happens next. Talk with people in Switzerland who know what it is like, find help near you, and join the worldwide circle too. Free, always.
Next gathering in the Switzerland circle: Weekly check-in ยท
Run by people who have been through divorce and separation and breakups and heartbreak themselves.
Weekdays and Saturday mornings
Free emotional support from trained listeners, online and anonymous, in many languages.
24/7
โI was right where you are in 2023. It was found the messages on his iPad and I couldn't see past it. Some weeks I don't think about it at all.โ
โI know you just found out and it feels like your whole world just got ripped up. I'm not going to tell you it's going to be fine because right now it's not. But you will sleep again. You will stop checking his phone. I still check sometimes, and it's crap. But it gets less. Find one person who will listen without judging. And if you can't sleep, put on a K-drama. It helps a little. I'm sorry this happened to you.โ
โIt is hard when the person you trusted hurts you. You will feel angry, sad, and confused, maybe all at once. That is normal. Take your time. You do not have to decide anything today. If you can, talk to someone you trust. For me, it was my friend Faisal. He did not try to fix it, he just listened. And prayer helped me when I could not think straight. You will survive this, even if it does not feel like it now.โ
โFor whoever is where I was: A few years back, that was me. It was trying couples counselling and I couldn't see past it. Now I sleep most nights. It's slow, but it does come back. Sending love.โ