Calm Corner Weighted Blankets, Ilorin
We help people with breakups and heartbreak and divorce and separation, in person in Ilorin and online. Sessions are relaxed and you set the pace.
Tue to Sat, 10 to 6
For the shock of betrayal and deciding what happens next. Talk with people in Nigeria who know what it is like, find help near you, and join the worldwide circle too. Free, always.
Next gathering in the Nigeria circle: Weekly check-in ยท
We help people with breakups and heartbreak and divorce and separation, in person in Ilorin and online. Sessions are relaxed and you set the pace.
Tue to Sat, 10 to 6
Practical help for people dealing with infidelity and betrayal and breakups and heartbreak, plus a weekly drop-in.
Evenings and weekends
Run by people who have been through breakups and heartbreak and divorce and separation themselves.
Weekdays and Saturday mornings
Free emotional support from trained listeners, online and anonymous, in many languages.
24/7
โIf you've just found this place, I was where you are nearly four years ago. I remember checking his phone now like it was yesterday. Last month I had people round for dinner. Things come back, slower than you'd like but they do. From someone who gets it.โ
โI know you just found out and it feels like your whole world just got ripped up. I'm not going to tell you it's going to be fine because right now it's not. But you will sleep again. You will stop checking his phone. I still check sometimes, and it's crap. But it gets less. Find one person who will listen without judging. And if you can't sleep, put on a K-drama. It helps a little. I'm sorry this happened to you.โ
โIt is hard when the person you trusted hurts you. You will feel angry, sad, and confused, maybe all at once. That is normal. Take your time. You do not have to decide anything today. If you can, talk to someone you trust. For me, it was my friend Faisal. He did not try to fix it, he just listened. And prayer helped me when I could not think straight. You will survive this, even if it does not feel like it now.โ
โPlease be gentel with yourself. I wasn't, and it made everything harder. Try not to make big decisions on the worst days. I learned that the hard way. And talk to someone, even if it's just in here.โ