Clear Path Counselling, Invercargill
Run by people who have been through divorce and separation and breakups and heartbreak themselves.
Weekdays and Saturday mornings
For the shock of betrayal and deciding what happens next. Talk with people in New Zealand who know what it is like, find help near you, and join the worldwide circle too. Free, always.
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Run by people who have been through divorce and separation and breakups and heartbreak themselves.
Weekdays and Saturday mornings
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โIf you're scared right now, I get it. I've been there. For me it was not that long ago, about a year. Telling my best friend. That was my life. Now I sleep most nights. It comes back slowly, like feeling in your fingers after the cold. Sending love.โ
โI know you just found out and it feels like your whole world just got ripped up. I'm not going to tell you it's going to be fine because right now it's not. But you will sleep again. You will stop checking his phone. I still check sometimes, and it's crap. But it gets less. Find one person who will listen without judging. And if you can't sleep, put on a K-drama. It helps a little. I'm sorry this happened to you.โ
โIf you've just found this place, I was where you are nearly four years ago. I remember checking his phone now like it was yesterday. Last month I had people round for dinner. Things come back, slower than you'd like but they do. From someone who gets it.โ
โNot that long ago, about a year, that was me. The worst part was found the messages on his iPad. I picked up the guitar again. It doesn't stay this heavy.โ