Clear Path Counselling, Lucerne
A small team supporting autism and neurodivergent family life and a loved one's addiction. Free first conversation, then low-cost sessions.
Tue to Sat, 10 to 6
For anyone worn down by caring for someone else. Talk with people in Switzerland who know what it is like, find help near you, and join the worldwide circle too. Free, always.
Next gathering in the Switzerland circle: Weekly check-in ยท
A small team supporting autism and neurodivergent family life and a loved one's addiction. Free first conversation, then low-cost sessions.
Tue to Sat, 10 to 6
โYou will resent them. You will hate yourself for it. Both things can be true. I wish someone had told me that earlier. Get a sitter for two hours a week, even if they refuse. Even if it feels like a waste. She'll survive. You need those two hours more than you know. And the guilt doesn't go away, but it gets quieter.โ
โto anyone starting with caregiver burnout: feeling this way does not mean you are weak. it means you have been carrying too much for too long. you will feel angry and guilty and loving all in the same hour. that is normal. get a sitter, even for two hours. go for a walk. cry in the bathroom if you need to. but do not turn on yourself for having feelings. this is hard what you are doing. and plenty of us are doing it too.โ
โI know you are running on empty. The resentment, the guilt, the exhaustion, it is all real. You are not a bad person for feeling it. Start with one small thing that is just for you, even if it is ten minutes. I found a sitter for two hours a week, and it changed things. It is not a cure, but it is a start. You are doing more than you think.โ
โIf you're at the start of this, I won't pretend it's easy and the first few months were the worst of my life and but I'm writing this from the other side, and some days now I forget to be sad, lean on whoever offers, even if it's awkward so people want to help. Go slowly.โ