Easy Ride Patient Transport, Kuching
We help people with caring for an aging parent and co-parenting after separation, in person in Kuching and online. Sessions are relaxed and you set the pace.
Weekdays and Saturday mornings
For anyone worn down by caring for someone else. Talk with people in Malaysia who know what it is like, find help near you, and join the worldwide circle too. Free, always.
Next gathering in the Malaysia circle: Weekly check-in ยท
We help people with caring for an aging parent and co-parenting after separation, in person in Kuching and online. Sessions are relaxed and you set the pace.
Weekdays and Saturday mornings
Practical help for people dealing with autism and neurodivergent family life and parenting a struggling teen, plus a weekly drop-in.
Mon to Fri, 9 to 5
โHi, you. This time last year I was exactly where you are. No respite in sight, every single day. Today I went for a walk and didn't cry once. Things come back, slower than you'd like but they do. One day at a time.โ
โYou will resent them. You will hate yourself for it. Both things can be true. I wish someone had told me that earlier. Get a sitter for two hours a week, even if they refuse. Even if it feels like a waste. She'll survive. You need those two hours more than you know. And the guilt doesn't go away, but it gets quieter.โ
โI know you are running on empty. The resentment, the guilt, the exhaustion, it is all real. You are not a bad person for feeling it. Start with one small thing that is just for you, even if it is ten minutes. I found a sitter for two hours a week, and it changed things. It is not a cure, but it is a start. You are doing more than you think.โ
โto anyone starting with caregiver burnout: feeling this way does not mean you are weak. it means you have been carrying too much for too long. you will feel angry and guilty and loving all in the same hour. that is normal. get a sitter, even for two hours. go for a walk. cry in the bathroom if you need to. but do not turn on yourself for having feelings. this is hard what you are doing. and plenty of us are doing it too.โ