Soft Light Sleep Kits, Kobe
A small team supporting co-parenting after separation and single parenting. Free first conversation, then low-cost sessions.
Weekdays and Saturday mornings
For anyone worn down by caring for someone else. Talk with people in Japan who know what it is like, find help near you, and join the worldwide circle too. Free, always.
Next gathering in the Japan circle: Weekly check-in ยท
A small team supporting co-parenting after separation and single parenting. Free first conversation, then low-cost sessions.
Weekdays and Saturday mornings
We help people with parenting a child with a disability and empty nest, in person in Naha and online. Sessions are relaxed and you set the pace.
Evenings and weekends
โHi, you. This time last year I was exactly where you are. No respite in sight, every single day. Today I went for a walk and didn't cry once. Things come back, slower than you'd like but they do. One day at a time.โ
โYou will resent them. You will hate yourself for it. Both things can be true. I wish someone had told me that earlier. Get a sitter for two hours a week, even if they refuse. Even if it feels like a waste. She'll survive. You need those two hours more than you know. And the guilt doesn't go away, but it gets quieter.โ
โI know you are running on empty. The resentment, the guilt, the exhaustion, it is all real. You are not a bad person for feeling it. Start with one small thing that is just for you, even if it is ten minutes. I found a sitter for two hours a week, and it changed things. It is not a cure, but it is a start. You are doing more than you think.โ
โIf you're at the start of this, I won't pretend it's easy and the first few months were the worst of my life and but I'm writing this from the other side, and some days now I forget to be sad, lean on whoever offers, even if it's awkward so people want to help. Go slowly.โ