Northside Debt Advice, Benin
A small team supporting loss of a spouse or partner and loss of a friend. Free first conversation, then low-cost sessions.
Tue to Sat, 10 to 6
For grief people do not always recognise. Talk with people in Nigeria who know what it is like, find help near you, and join the worldwide circle too. Free, always.
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A small team supporting loss of a spouse or partner and loss of a friend. Free first conversation, then low-cost sessions.
Tue to Sat, 10 to 6
We help people with loss of a spouse or partner and loss of a friend, in person in Abuja and online. Sessions are relaxed and you set the pace.
Tue to Sat, 10 to 6
Run by people who have been through losing a pet and loss of a friend themselves.
Evenings and weekends
Practical help for people dealing with loss of a parent and anticipatory grief, plus a weekly drop-in.
Tue to Sat, 10 to 6
Run by people who have been through loss of a child and loss of a brother or sister themselves.
Mon to Fri, 9 to 5
A small team supporting losing a pet and loss of a spouse or partner. Free first conversation, then low-cost sessions.
Weekdays and Saturday mornings
Run by people who have been through loss of a spouse or partner and anticipatory grief themselves.
Evenings and weekends
Free emotional support from trained listeners, online and anonymous, in many languages.
24/7
Grief recovery support groups meeting weekly.
โIf you're scared right now, I get it. I was right where you are about three years ago. For me it was work gave me one day off. I went on holiday in the summer and actually relaxed. It comes back slowly, like feeling in your fingers after the cold. Be gentle with yourself.โ
โIf you're scared right now, I get it. I was right where you are a few years back. For me it was her mum still messages me. Today I made breakfast, went to work and laughed at something. Keep going, even slowly.โ
โDear you, Losing a friend is like losing a part of yourself. I don't have magic words, but I can tell you that it's okay to feel broken for a while. The group might change, and that's hard. Tell people when you can, and don't be afraid to say you're not okay. The numbness from meds might fade, or you might need to try something else. Be patient with yourself. And if you can, find one person who gets it. That helped me.โ
โTwo years ago, that was me. Her mum still messages me. That was my life. Some weeks I don't think about it at all. It doesn't stay this heavy. Sending love.โ