Nathan & Partners Family Law, Tours
Practical help for people dealing with adoption and foster care and caregiver burnout, plus a weekly drop-in.
Weekdays and Saturday mornings
For the overwhelming, beautiful first years. Talk with people in France who know what it is like, find help near you, and join the worldwide circle too. Free, always.
Next gathering in the France circle: Weekly check-in ·
Practical help for people dealing with adoption and foster care and caregiver burnout, plus a weekly drop-in.
Weekdays and Saturday mornings
“I think If you're at the start of this, I won't pretend it's easy. The first few months were the worst of my life. But I'm writing this from the other side, and some days now I forget to be sad. I stopped trying to be the perfect parent. Good enough is enough. Go slowly.”
“Esto es para vos, que estás empezando. No te voy a mentir, es difícil. Pero también hay momentos buenos. No tenés que ser perfecto. Yo todavía estoy aprendiendo. Hablá con alguien, aunque sea por acá. No estás solo en esto, aunque a veces lo parezca. Un día a la vez, che.”
“If you are just starting out with a new baby and the colic, I want to tell you it does pass. The crying every evening feels like it will never end but it does. Ask for help even if you have no family close by. I found one neighbour who took the baby for an hour so I could sleep. That hour saved me. Other mums are out there going through the same thing even when it feels like nobody is.”
“To anyone just starting out: it's bloody hard. The crying, the weighing, the feeling like you've vanished. I won't say it's easy, but it does change. You'll find bits of yourself again, just slower than you'd like. Accept help when it's offered, even if it's just someone holding the baby while you shower. And if you're struggling, tell someone. I wish I had sooner.”