Be'er Home Help
A small team supporting new parenthood and co-parenting after separation. Free first conversation, then low-cost sessions.
Weekdays and Saturday mornings
For the overwhelming, beautiful first years. Talk with people in Israel who know what it is like, find help near you, and join the worldwide circle too. Free, always.
Next gathering in the Israel circle: Weekly check-in ยท
A small team supporting new parenthood and co-parenting after separation. Free first conversation, then low-cost sessions.
Weekdays and Saturday mornings
โTo anyone just starting out: it's bloody hard. The crying, the weighing, the feeling like you've vanished. I won't say it's easy, but it does change. You'll find bits of yourself again, just slower than you'd like. Accept help when it's offered, even if it's just someone holding the baby while you shower. And if you're struggling, tell someone. I wish I had sooner.โ
โI remember being right in the middle of it, thinking there was no end. The broken sleep, feeling like a stranger to yourself. I've been there. What helped me was tiny things: a short walk with the pram, a hot drink while the baby slept (even if I didn't). And I asked for help, which wasn't easy. You're not on your own with this. Things do improve, just slowly. Try to be kind to yourself.โ
โFor whoever is where I was: I was right where you are about three years ago. No family nearby, every single day. I went on holiday in the summer and actually relaxed. It's slow, but it does come back. xโ
โIf you've just found this place, I was in the same place nearly four years ago. For me it was my partner and I fighting over nothing. I've started painting again.โ